Don’t wait for things to become better
Treat life like one of those races in nursery school, where you race with a marble in a spoon held in your mouth. If the marble falls there is no point coming first. Same is with life, where health and relationships are the marble. Coming first counts only with the marble still in the spoon. […]
‘Doing the right thing’
Lessons learnt from school and our experiences as a child shape our values & behaviour. Doing the right thing generally means making decisions that are not based on your own personal needs, that don’t expand your popularity, or enforce your personal beliefs. It means doing what is best for the greater or common good. Doing […]
Stop complaining
I am grateful that I may not have everything I want in my life, but I am blessed enough to have all that I need. The moment you start acting that life is a blessing, it starts feeling like one. I have found that worry & irritation vanish the moment I open my mind to […]
‘Don’t Judge Others’
Don’t be in a hurry to judge people. I try not to judge people mainly because of two reasons, I have too many faults of my own and too many sins that I have committed and secondly everybody is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Not judging people is about recognizing that everyone is […]
Future Pacing
I recently learnt a brilliant technique widely used in NLP. Future pacing is about getting people to imagine something in their lives that’s possible in the future. For example, if you’re selling a product, you want them to picture themselves using it and imagining how good it will feel to receive the benefits of that […]
The Questions You Ask
Our mind is like a search engine—it answers whatever question you type in. Ask “Why does this always happen to me?” and your brain will dig up reasons to confirm you’re stuck. But if you ask “What can I learn from this?” or “How can I turn this around?” and suddenly, you’re opening doors to […]
I say “I’m fine”…
It’s been one long year since Dad left us. I say “I’m fine”… because it’s easier than letting the world see the pain I carry inside. But the truth is, life without Dad is a quiet kind of heartbreak—one that words can’t fully hold. Every memory feels both comforting and aching, and in the stillness, […]
What do you want to wish for?
Good health, wealth, happiness, prosperity, success, learning, fame….for yourself, your family, friends & associates? If I had to make just one wish, it would be to never stop learning and growing. I want to keep expanding my ability to help people—whether that means untangling a tricky question, sparking a new idea, or simply making your […]