Nobody cares

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16th January 2026

Two words – The single piece of advice that changed my life…

Here’s the harsh truth: In life,
We aren’t afraid of failure,
The failure itself isn’t what scares us.
The anticipation of failure isn’t what prevents us from taking action.
The fear isn’t as it seems.

We aren’t afraid of failure but we’re afraid of what other people will think of us if we fail.

The fear is in the judgment.
The fear is in the embarrassment.
The fear is in the scrutiny.
The fear is in the whispers.
The fear is in what they might say, or what they might think.
The fear is in the silence.

This type of fear has a damning impact on our life:
We don’t hit send on the content we created.
We shy away from sharing our new ideas in the meeting.
We wait to start until we have the perfect plan.
We don’t tell the story our energy is calling us to tell.
We do the things that will impress others, rather than the things that we actually want to do.
But actually, Nobody cares.

When you’re winning, when everything is going well, when you’re achieving it, nobody cares.

When you’re losing, when everything is falling flat, when you’re down and out, nobody cares.

It doesn’t mean nobody loves you.
It just means nobody cares about your life as much as you do.
It just means that you are in control.
It’s upto you.

For me, this realisation was
not depressing.
It was liberating,
empowering and
energizing.

The fears that we have are not real.

There are two big mistakes in life:

1) Worrying about what other people think about you and
2) Believing that other people think about you in the first place.

Here’s the truth: Nobody is thinking about you.
We’re all egocentric creatures—everyone is too busy focusing and thinking about themselves.

That thing you’ve always wanted to do:
That story you’ve always wanted to tell,
That idea you’ve always wanted to pursue,
That person you’ve always wanted to talk to,
That weird hobby you’ve always wanted to try,
That leap of faith you’ve always wanted to take;
Nobody cares.

So, in 2026, stop bothering about ‘Log kya kahenge’ ( What will the people / society think) just go ahead and do it.
Follow your dream, do what you always wanted to do & stay blessed forever.